Oral Sex: Mom and Daughter Speak Openly About the Topic <3

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Lena-“Oral sex has the zest of youth. I think that somewhere down the line people lose the excitement to taste their partners. Go taste your partners forever.
Lena’s mom-“And its nice to know what your partner smells like. Have that taste on your lips during the day.”

I love every ounce of this video. Reminds me of how some of my family members relate to their children, openly, safely and honestly about life happenings such as this. This was beautiful to bare witness to. -Gracie 🙂

Nelson Mandela Said It-Has to be True

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Nelson Mandela Said It-Has to be True

We dedicate this day to all the heroes and heroines in this country and the rest of the world who sacrificed in many ways and surrendered their lives so that we could be free. Their dreams have become reality. Freedom is their reward.We are both humbled and elevated by the honour and privilege that you, the people of South Africa, have bestowed on us, as the first President of a united, democratic, non-racial and non-sexist South Africa, to lead our country out of the valley of darkness.

Read more-http://bytheirstrangefruit.blogspot.com/2013/12/in-mandelas-own-words.html

Black Dolls are for Grown-up Black Girls Too

Dedication to the kaleidoscope shades and hair textures we are. And although we weren’t privileged as children to have dolls like this-it’s never too late to have dolls like this now! Big kid style. Love to all of the hearts of black girls who never got to see dolls that looked like them growing up. These are merely a few dolls. Our shades and all are endless. -Gracie

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Links to all of the dolls above:

-http://www.pinterest.com/pin/164944405074345327/

-http://naturalhairwoman.com/black-barbie-dolls/

-http://ilovemykinkyhair.blogspot.com/2010/12/black-dolls-with-custom-natural-hair.html

-http://www.pinterest.com/pin/383650461979426192/

-http://www.bellyitchblog.com/2014/02/photo-history-of-ethnic-barbie-dolls.html

-https://www.flickr.com/photos/becholo/11041581873/

-http://community.ebay.com/t5/Archive-Dolls-Artists-Limited/Artist-Doll-signature-identification/td-p/1539966

-http://myfashiontherapy.me/post/42937145648/african-american-dolls

Valuing All Bodies Will Make Your Body Feel Good

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Valuing All Bodies Will Make Your Body Feel Good

Like Rachel Wiley said, “The phrase ‘big girls need love too’ can go die in a fire. Fucking me does not require an asterisk. Loving me is not a fetish. Finding me beautiful is not a novelty. I am not a novelty.”

Read Rachel’s poem along with other literary submissions here: http://hu-manup.org/design–writing-submissions.html#honest
Read more about this article here-http://internal/-acceptance-movement.tumblr.com/post/52647149608

Um Girlrillavintage Moment?

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Um Girlrillavintage Moment?

Dawg! Ya style ain’t gots no bizness bein dis fly! I want thee entire lay ‘cept fah deh locs, gots my own set of dem. Sheesh! Fyah!

FASHION: The Labo Ethnik Fashion & Lifestyle event showcasing Afro-Caribbean talents will take place in Paris May 22-25! Fashion, music, culture, dope indie designers who push the boundaries of traditional fashion codes
–> http://www.afropunk.com/profiles/blogs/event-labo-ethnik-fashion-lifestyle-showcases-afro-caribbean
Pictured: design by LAURENCEAIRLINE

Dedication to my dear friend whose baby was born with no heart beat last night <3

“Where do I go when there’s no where to turn to
Feel all alone wandering why I am
Where do I go where I need familiar
Woman hold my hand

Who do I turn to when my legs get shaky
Eyes cloud over, I can’t see my way
Who let’s me know that I’m still walking upright
Woman hold my hand

Who laughs with me when I’m feeling silly
Who skips along dance the whole night away
Who smiles with me in my moments of pretty
Woman hold my hand

Who binds my wounds when I’m bruised and battered
By strangers and those daily walking in my life
Who lets me know that I’m more than my hurtings
Woman hold my hand

Who cries with me when I lose my baby
By accident, choice, or against my will
Who knows that I am a childless mother
Woman hold my hand

Who bids me sing when my voice is silent
Songs have left me for places unheard
Who bids me sing when all singing seems useless
Woman hold my hand” -Music: Composer Mae Frances, Composed by Bernice Johnson Reagon, copyright: Songtalk PublishingCo.http://www.bernicejohnsonreagon.com/mae.shtml

Imagine How Exhausting it is Experiencing Racism

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Imagine How Exhausting it is Experiencing Racism

“For those of you who are tire of hearing about racism, imagine how much more tired we are constantly experiencing it.”-Barbara Smith, an American lesbian feminist and socialist who has played a significant role in building and sustaining Black Feminism in the United States.

Extension of a beautiful dialogue on facebook about this picture:

Friend: I’ve never been tired of it; I am weary, however, of seeing resurgences and denials of it, in which I believe I am joining you?

Me: resurgence and denial by whom?

Friend: resurgences in society/the media, and the denial by anyone who tries to say we don’t need to keep talking about it and working it out.

Me: Agreed. I appreciate your support all of the time! Thank you. Your comment reminds me of a conversation I had last week with a friend and white ally. She mentioned her personal experience of calling people out on racism when she encounters it, yet realized the limitations of that action alone. She said that people often get angry with her and deny it, but that she feels compelled to do so despite the fact. We talked about how racism is deeply rooted in structures of power beyond simply calling people on their shit. It’s no secret that racism is structural and needs its ass kicked in that fashion. She also made a great point suggesting to white allies not worrying so much about being ‘good allies’ or coming to terms with white privilege, but in its place looking around to see all of the ways racism is a burden on our society and how they can directly do something to change those things. And that in order to fight to win against racism we must work collectively to change racist ideologies and practices deeply rooted in the fabric of the US. For example mass incarceration, school closings, drone warfare, deportation, and predatory lenders-allies can directly get involved to work to change these systems.

Read more about the quote here: http://www.theroot.com/articles/history/2013/09/best_black_history_quotes_barbara_smith_on_racism.html?wpisrc=root_more_news