Tough Skin

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Tough Skin

“In my opinion having a tough skin comes with age. I get mine from the ‘Creative’. It doesn’t mean that one is impenetrable. It means that one has the ability to accept life as it happens with no regrets. From this stems nurture. From beneath this very skin lives acceptance and understanding. Creatures outside of self will always do exactly what they will. So do what you must, and take care of yourself.” -Gracie

Ode To Love Making With Women

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Ode To Love Making With Women

Colorful peacock ladies. Our thighs straddle-maple. We tease’s with ease. Playful tongues of fur and feathers. Areola’s dangle to touch. Guava to taste. Like a sugary sand. And we nurture soliloquy’s dripping down our chins. Pungent smells from between thighs. We pin down to catch the feeling. We love-on transitions. At times mirroring our weakness, our fears, our inability to cope. Our expressions are safe here. We take from both past and present. Love is real here. No fear here. Sweat on sweet. Love or lust we feel so much aah. No time constraints just us giving all we got. From orange moons lined with red rivers. Cross the deep or submerged beneath it. We keep it-live. Alive from each others breath.  Women. Curved. Scarred. Strong. Thick. Bones. Garbed. High. Fly. Why? Cause I love em. Gracie

Brittney Griner Is Changing the World of Sports With Her Fashion Sense

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Brittney Griner Is Changing the World of Sports With Her Fashion Sense

In a world in which the female body is always up for critique, Griner stands as very tall testament to how much we’ve changed in our attitudes toward difference, but also to the distance we have yet to travel. Hers is the story of how a 22-year-old physical anomaly with the energy of the goofy skater kid she is during her off-hours—leaving the arena, Griner worked her long torso through an open car window and sat on the door’s edge, hollering to a teammate behind us—is challenging norms of both sexuality and gender. “Gender is who you go to bed as,” says one specialist in gender identity issues. “Sexuality is who you go to bed with.”

http://www.elle.com/life-love/society-career/brittney-griner-profile

Lord Jamar: Macklemore’s Pushing Gay Agenda

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In my opinion we live in a patriarchal society that encourages hetero-normative behaviours and attitudes like that of Lord Jamar. As a queer woman of color I experience the ale’s of ‘white privilege’ daily. I totally agree with Lord Jamar’s point about ‘white privilege’ and the fear of being extinguished at the expense of that privilege is terrifying. A system that must start with ‘white people’ accepting that such privilege exists in order to deconstruct it. It’s like when ‘white people’ proclaim something as fact, it is often more socially valued in the case Macklemore; being thrust into view as a respected hip hop artist when black men created the very foundation on where he stands, and often not being honored for that (KRS-1 one of the greatest artists of all time never receiving a Grammy is an example of this). However, I do feel that his view point highlight’s a much different issue for me, and that being that homosexuality has no place in hip hop? This is troubling for me having grown up at the height of hip hop culture. I feel like if not Macklemore, then who will begin conversations about homosexuality’s rightful place in hip hop?

We are persuaded to believe that human sexuality is trapped, not only within the dichotomy of male and female genders, but within the subtext of hetero-normality. I don’t know Lord Jamar, but I’m all to familiar with view points like his. I’m aware that while my opinions don’t make them fact, neither does his. I’ve found his view on this disheartening because contrary to popular belief “being black and male is a privilege (often at the expense of femininity). Female hip hop artists have struggled to be respected as contributing members to this art form. Lord Jamar’s opinion is dis-empowering not only to me, but within hip hop, and a mainstream communities. As I compare and contrast “abilities” of masculine vs. feminine, this suggestion of “weakness” being associated with “gay” are defeatist and inaccurate. I’m interested in understanding how one begins deconstructing the influence of homophobic stereotypes like these? When will homosexual stigma stop running deep in the social practices of both mainstream and grassroots rap and hip hop? When will masculinity stop being a prerequisite to privilege? Privilege often happens at the expense of others. His opinion not only devalues, but supports systems of oppression and violence towards homosexual communities systematically marginalized by capitalism. -Gracie